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Which StuckNutter is this?
« on: April 21, 2015, 08:53:16 pm »
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First, I must apologize. I ramble when I'm nervous and I'm quite nervous as I'm a big fan of yours and my girlfriend—the lady I'm writing about—is too, but maybe her seeing this will help.

So, I've had a pretty weird sex life. I'm a repeated male victim of rape, and as a fat guy who grew up very poor and surrounded by rich kids, I viewed pretty much every good, consenting sexual encounter as probably the last one I'd ever have unless I rocked at it. So I'd always been all about my partner's pleasure, no matter what it takes—if they like it maybe they'll come back.

It worked for a long time. My late teens and early 20s were full of loving relationships and a great sex life. Then when I turned 22, my long time girlfriend sort of lost her mind. Not in the way guys talk about women being crazy, but actually beating me with objects and raping me when I couldn't resist anymore—that degree of crazy. When I managed to get free, I left, but my sex drive died. I didn't date. I didn't flirt (which is hard for me to not do, as to this day I'm still fat and poor, but I pride myself on being charming). I didn't even masturbate for a few years. When I decided to get back into dating, I was unemployed, living with my mother, in the worst shape of my life, and in therapy for trying to get used to being touched again.

I went the online route, through gaming and dating sites, and through three disastrous online relationships (including one where the 22 year old girl ended up being a 34 year old married man), I finally ended up with a woman I'd call the love of my life. I moved across the country for her and don't regret it—things are mostly pretty great!

But there's the bedroom.

She's a good lover. I love the intimacy and I love, well, being with someone I love. It's much better than being with a willing body. There are snafus and struggles here and there, but the issue comes down to the title of this email: I will be 30 years old in eight months. Between serving my lovers and being raped, I have no idea what a blowjob feels like. I don't know if she finds them gross—I'm not circumcised and I figured that was the issue, but I'm very, very clean and she says she doesn't care, but she just doesn't want to do them. She's cited a sensitive gag reflex as one of the main reasons, but, well, I'm not exactly John Holmes. Or even remotely close. Frankly, I've seen her eat corn dogs that put me to shame. We've spoken to a couple's therapist who, on the side, encouraged me to stray to find out what it was like because "every man deserves good head at some point," despite us telling her that we are monogamous. Upon telling that to my girlfriend, well, let's just say we only talk to the therapist together now.

I basically am just trying to find someone's advice. The relationship is monogamous, and I love her to death, but she's said, flatly, no blowjobs ever, and I don't know if I'm putting an overemphasis on how good/important they are, but I'd also like to know for myself at least one time. What should I do?

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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #1 on: April 21, 2015, 08:54:25 pm »
toooooooo fvcking much

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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #2 on: April 21, 2015, 09:01:24 pm »
Asking for a friend?  :uhh


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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #3 on: April 21, 2015, 10:54:19 pm »
 :lol :lol :lol :lol

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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #4 on: April 22, 2015, 12:05:32 am »
Is this the nutter who had lunch with PWD?
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #5 on: April 22, 2015, 12:23:36 am »
Is this the nutter who had lunch with PWD?

my guess is sevvy in ottowa...
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #6 on: April 22, 2015, 07:34:39 am »
That's a tough read /s/ Ayn Rand
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #7 on: April 22, 2015, 07:44:40 am »
Thats gotta be Arex in Tampa.
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #8 on: April 22, 2015, 07:57:47 am »
No way. Even Twitter skanks would blow uncut junk.
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #9 on: April 22, 2015, 10:55:47 am »
tldr;
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #10 on: April 22, 2015, 01:08:43 pm »
tldr;

Saluki highlighted the important parts for lazy asses like yourself.
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Re: Which StuckNutter is this?
« Reply #11 on: April 22, 2015, 05:13:58 pm »
Asking for a friend?  :uhh
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